Here’s what you said in post #195: “ If a certain group wants people to realize that carrying a weapon is normal and ordinary, which I agree that it is, they should act civilized all the time and not be “in your face” with it.”
What did any of the men do that was “uncivilized”?
Why is openly carrying in a coffee shop “in your face with it”?
Would we be having this discussion if the one fellow had simply provided his ID when it was asked of him? I think not. It was a reasonable request, whether lawful or not, and apparently the other 4 men complied but this one did not. Was he looking for a confrontation or not?