I dont blame her for sending him back. Disrupted adoptions happen. If she was lied to and the child is psyhotic or sociopathic back he should go. Not to be cared for on our backs.... what do you think happens to mentally ill kids? They become wards of the state.
SOnds like she was lied to and what is the big deal of sending kids on a 10 hour flight. One pays the airline extra for the babysitting. Happens all the time.
You should never have kids.