I try to think of it like a divorce. We joined together in this union, but you became to oppressive, so we are leaving. You can keep the dependents, I wont even fight you for them, I just want out. Maybe after the divorce, we can be friends.
You are much nicer than I. I don't think THEY deserve to be given a reason. We should just go. Screw 'em.
....nicer than I=nicer than me