When a guy abandons his family by his reckless and risky choices, made irresponsibly and leaves his family (his wife-to-be and his son) to the welfare of others — he has failed his family... that’s as plain as it gets...
That is not what I would call military service. I’m damn proud of our military. They don’t fail their families by serving. You fail all around with your cowardice.
He did not *abandon* his family.
There’s a saying,.... Throw a rock over a fence and the dog that yelps is the one that got hit.
I don’t know why you’re do condemning of this guy, but it sure gives one food for thought.
You can justify it to yourself all you want, but you’re going to be the only one who buys it.
Go slink back under whatever rock you came out from.....