You are wrong. “Homophobia” is a term made up by homosexual activists to denigrate those who disagree with them - making us (or me, anyway, and others who share my POV) as “haters” and “bigots”.
You are buying into their bogus idea that the “gay life” is just an alternative and just as valid and wholesome and worthy as natural family life and sex.
And that anyone who hates their agenda and criticizes their practices as unhealthy, unnatural and mentally ill has “homophobia” and is a “hater” and a “bigot”.
On the contrary, it’s normal and natural to be disgusted and repelled by every aspect of the “gay” life.
Which is why I noted that they would call us that no matter what we do -- how is that wrong?
And what have I said anywhere that suggests to you I think "gay life" is a valid alternative? I think you haven't been reading what I've written.
I guess where we disagree is that I don't get as mad about other conservatives who are wrong on this subject as some people do. I haven't disowned Dick Cheney because he is wrong about this. I do think CPAC was wrong to have GOProud support their convention, and it hurt them, but I don't fault the speakers who decided to show up anyway.
lj, your post was so good I'm repeating it -- in a large font -- so it is easier to see!
And, yes, I totally agree with your POV.