Which is why I noted that they would call us that no matter what we do -- how is that wrong?
And what have I said anywhere that suggests to you I think "gay life" is a valid alternative? I think you haven't been reading what I've written.
I guess where we disagree is that I don't get as mad about other conservatives who are wrong on this subject as some people do. I haven't disowned Dick Cheney because he is wrong about this. I do think CPAC was wrong to have GOProud support their convention, and it hurt them, but I don't fault the speakers who decided to show up anyway.
I am correct and you are not being honest; I was replying to this:
“I think a lot of what was on this thread was actually good. As others have said, no matter what we do people will call it homophobia. But I think it matters whether they are right or wrong on that assessment.”
You very clearly stated that it MATTERS whether the homosexual agenda pushers are right or wrong about conservatives being “homophobes” - IOW, we should make sure we don’t come across as “haters” and “bigots” and “homophobes”. Their opinion “matters”; they have to realize we are not “homophobes”.
You are buying their garbage by saying that.
The only way they won’t think conservatives are “homophobes” is by joining their team and pushing their agenda along with them. Other than that, we remain “homophobes”.
I can’t understand why this is unclear to you.