>>You all never admit the truth about this.<<
Who’s “You all”?
Maybe you don’t know a lot of Catholics, but everyone I know admits to it. We don’t like a parish, we find another.
See, the liturgy is the same (mostly) wherever we go. So we shop for the community. Except in the case of an ultra-lib parish. There, the liturgy has so much innovation, is can border on bizarre.
Parish shopping is not a secret.
I know tons of RC. Family, classmates, etc.
The point is you all rationalize that somehow
what you are doing is not what you are doing.
Like you just did !