You have this all figured out huh? Spend a lot of time dreaming about daking strangers? You are never going to realize that most people believe that anything you would be willing to do defines you. It does not matter how you describe it as fanatasy or that it never is going to happen - you are saying that if given the opportunity you would cheat on your wife, cheat on your kids, devalue yourself just to have sex - period. That is exactly what it means. I’m really sorry you can’t see that, but it really tells a lot that you are trying so hard to defend the actions of someone who would put all of their values aside just to have sex.
“That is exactly what it means. I’m really sorry you can’t see that, but it really tells a lot that you are trying so hard to defend the actions of someone who would put all of their values aside just to have sex.”
When are you going to realize it’s all about her, and at most the sexual taste of the man. If you don’t like questions that are beyond good and evil, I guess I can understand, but certainly in this case I think it’s a wild overreaction. You have this nagging tendency to add a sense of reality to the decision which just isn’t there. Again, it’s not a game of Scruples. It’s another version of “On a Scale of One to Ten...” Maybe everything to you is a game of Scruples, but not to me.
“It’s not like we’re comparing ruling the world to sleeping with a woman you work with.”
I meant to say: “However, it’s not like we’re comparing...”
The point being, both sleeping with a celebrity and ruling the world are outside the normal course of events for most people.