The problem may actually be you. You take what others say and label it what YOU feel is racist or not. That is exactly what the MSM does also.
Yes, you might be right. Monkey references, "Jeffersons" theme songs, "ghetto" and "hood" references, "Aunt Jemima" pictures, calling little girls "nappy haired hos"... the list goes on... these are all completely non-racial and any inference otherwise is all a figment of my wacky imagination.
I can not have a serious discussion with people who willingly choose to delude themselves.