I think what you're seeing in the man's hand is just his wristwatch. The blood is on the ground, her jeans and her chest before they lay her down. They have their hands on her upper chest because they are trying to stanch the blood from the entry wound.
When you see her eyes roll up and fix, she is already gone. The blood pouring from her mouth and nose is simply her heart continuing to pump.
I've investigated a lot of horrible deaths, and I've been at the scene of a fatal while they were pulling the dying out. This is for real. I don't see how they could fake it.
No, you aren’t looking in the right place. It appears to be Neda’s hand. It is just caked blood? Is it an empty hand? Is something in her hand?
You can see various fews here.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XdfN_NoFviA
I think people yesterday thought it was someone else’s hand doing something but it appears to be Neda’s hand.
To me, it looks like she died but I have no experience in the subject as I have never seen anyone actually die.