It means loving someone even when they go light years out of their way to be hurtful and spiteful.
It means honoring them, even when they prove to be Gomer daughter of Diblai. (That’s in the book of Hosea folks.)
And protecting them even when they go light years out of the way to put themselves in danger.
That isn’t easy.
Who is being hurtful to who? What’s the ratio of domestic violence against women vs men??? Guys get ticked off and who do they take it out on? Problems at work - knock the old lady around ... yep, that’ll make them more relaxed ...