Altogether different skill sets and settings.
For instance, a guy out in the world works within a very simple framework: win or lose. The more he wins, the more “stuff” he gets — the better looking the wife, the bigger house, the cooler car, etc. etc.
The women work within a more or less closed system in which the goal isn’t particularly win or lose problem solving skill sets.
OK - I’m a corporate pilot ... I fly jets. What different skill sets do I have that a “husband” doesn’t? My framework is not simple, it’s very complicated. If I loose I loose my life along with my passengers. I have to win every time.
You’re saying that the more stuff he gets the better looking the wife? Good grief! Win or loose the woman has to make the home, take care of the kids (guys yell when they get a splinter, try going through the pain associated with childbirth one time). Skill sets???!!!!