you did not read my post where I clear stated medical and where a court order could reveal as has been done with medical emergencies. (ie bone marrow)
now you are just going into red herrings.
here we have no such situation.
We have two men who share a sexual fetish who wish to have a birth certificate reflect a biological impossiblity. The child (adult or otherwise) only has one mother and one father at a time.
even in cases where a step father wants to adopt a child the natural father has to be dead or legally have the rights terminated by order of the court.
Newsflash the law is very clear. Adoption records are close absent an order of the court. Holding your breath and stomping your feet will not change that no matter how old you are.
Maybe I should just keep my mouth closed as you seem to know so much more than I about something that affects me PERSONALLY.
I went through 16 years of my life using my ADOPTED family’s medical history as my own. In trying to cover-up my adoption (which you have said should be up to the parents), my parents created a situation in which my DOCTORS were using FALSE information to make MEDICAL DECISIONS! It’s not just about bone marrow — and you do know that many, many judges won’t even open the records then, right?
How can you even say that these issues don’t affect this child, too?
This is not a “Red Herring”. These are real and valid issues that effect EVERY adopted child — including this young boy.
You keep bringing up these men’s sexual perversion as if that should affect the laws on the books one way or another...
I agree this is a totally messed up situation, but you cannot pretend that the issues I have brought up do not apply here.
Newsflash: Many states have overturned closed records laws over the last few years as UNCONSTITUTIONAL, and more will follow. And holding your breath and taking a superior tone with me as if you are MY parent won’t change it, no matter how much older than me YOU are!