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The Pleasure Principle
New York Times ^ | March 13, 2009 | Patricia Leigh Brown and Carol Pogash

Posted on 03/15/2009 6:20:44 PM PDT by reaganaut1

San Francisco

Even in a culture in which sex toys are a booming business and Oprah Winfrey discusses living your best life in the bedroom, a coed live-in commune dedicated to the female orgasm hovers at the extremes.

The founder of the One Taste Urban Retreat Center, Nicole Daedone, sees herself as leading “the slow-sex movement,” one that places a near-exclusive emphasis on women’s pleasure — in which love, romance and even flirtation are not required.

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A core of 38 men and women — their average age the late 20s — live full time in the retreat center, a shabby-chic loft building in the South of Market district. They prepare meals together, practice yoga and mindfulness meditation and lead workshops in communication for outside groups as large as 60.

But the heart of the group’s activity, listed cryptically on its Web site’s calendar as “morning practice,” is closed to all but the residents.

At 7 a.m. each day, as the rest of America is eating Cheerios or trying to face gridlock without hyperventilating, about a dozen women, naked from the waist down, lie with eyes closed in a velvet-curtained room, while clothed men huddle over them, stroking them in a ritual known as orgasmic meditation — “OMing,” for short. The couples, who may or may not be romantically involved, call one another “research partners.”

(Excerpt) Read more at nytimes.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; US: California
KEYWORDS: culturewars; sanfrancisco; sex; sexobsessed; sf
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Don't these people have jobs?
1 posted on 03/15/2009 6:20:44 PM PDT by reaganaut1
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They must telecommute to work... :-)


2 posted on 03/15/2009 6:23:56 PM PDT by Star Traveler
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They probably have a taxpayer-funded, government grant for their “research”.


3 posted on 03/15/2009 6:24:08 PM PDT by ChicagahAl (Don't blame me. I voted for Sarah.)
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The men do, at 7am. Didn’t you read the article?:)


4 posted on 03/15/2009 6:24:35 PM PDT by posterchild (Endowed by my Creator with certain unalienable rights.)
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Recycled Hippies. They’re all about recycling, Man. They’ve even raised their GRANDCHILDREN to be ‘recycled and expendable.’ :)

What sad, shallow, hollow, meaningless lives...

And we, the TAXPAYER are undoubtedly supporting them in one way or another. *Rolleyes*


5 posted on 03/15/2009 6:24:57 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin (Save The Earth. It's The Only Planet With Chocolate.)
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We don’t need jobs “O” has up covered!


6 posted on 03/15/2009 6:25:40 PM PDT by ermmt
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"One Taste Urban Retreat Center"

Hmmmm...one taste and you don't come back for more?

7 posted on 03/15/2009 6:28:29 PM PDT by ProtectOurFreedom
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“...Her pathway back to life was initially Buddhism, which she pursued with a vengeance, intending to live in a Zen community. But at a party in 1998, she met a Buddhist who had a practice in what he called “contemplative sexuality...”

It’s a shame that they invent this nonsense to kid themselves, and call it “Buddhism.” It is no different than if someone entered a Christian Convent or Seminary and said they were going to practice “comtemplative sexuality” there.


8 posted on 03/15/2009 6:30:30 PM PDT by PGR88
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Women will never get as much pleasure from this, as they do from telling their husbands to clean the garage.


9 posted on 03/15/2009 6:30:41 PM PDT by proxy_user
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Here is a regular participant


10 posted on 03/15/2009 6:31:16 PM PDT by Fred (Proud Member of the Obama Enemies List)
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To: Diana in Wisconsin

What sad, shallow, hollow, meaningless lives...


My thoughts exactly.


11 posted on 03/15/2009 6:34:39 PM PDT by rbg81 (DRAIN THE SWAMP!!)
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Great Gary Numan album, one of the first great all-electronic albums.

Oh, this was about something else?


12 posted on 03/15/2009 6:38:48 PM PDT by antiRepublicrat (Sacred cows make the best hamburger.)
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“One Taste Urban Retreat Center”
“Hmmmm...one taste and you don’t come back for more?”

I hope it’s not fish.


13 posted on 03/15/2009 6:44:06 PM PDT by rdax
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Here is a regular participant

Here "was" a regular participant.

14 posted on 03/15/2009 6:53:41 PM PDT by MeneMeneTekelUpharsin (Freedom is the freedom to discipline yourself so others don't have to do it for you.)
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Surprisingly, all in all, these chicks ain't half bad.







I'd have guessed they were all hairy, flabby, hippie chicks who reeked of patchouli and B.O.

15 posted on 03/15/2009 7:01:48 PM PDT by End Times Sentinel (In Memory of my Dear Friend Henry Lee II)
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Why is it that the only people on the planet for whom sex is new are liberals??

Everything they do involves sex.


16 posted on 03/15/2009 7:04:57 PM PDT by DustyMoment (FloriDUH - proud inventors of pregnant/hanging chads and judicide!!)
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From the article:
“The notion of a San Francisco sex commune focused on female orgasm is part of a long and rich history of women being public and empowered about their sexuality,” said Elizabeth A. Armstrong, an associate professor of sociology at Indiana University, who has studied San Francisco’s sexual subcultures.
One has to wonder if Liz is jealous.
17 posted on 03/15/2009 7:25:29 PM PDT by upchuck (I'm glad I'm old. Thus I can remember when America was a decent, moral, God fearing country.)
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At 7 a.m. each day, as the rest of America is eating Cheerios or trying to face gridlock without hyperventilating, about a dozen women, naked from the waist down, lie with eyes closed in a velvet-curtained room, while clothed men huddle over them, stroking them in a ritual known as orgasmic meditation — “OMing,” for short.

LOL. They've been doing it all this time and apparently haven't figured out a couple problems with their program.

They'd have to change a few things before I want to join their movement.

18 posted on 03/15/2009 7:42:09 PM PDT by Lawgvr1955 (You can never have too much cowbell !!)
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At 7 a.m. each day, as the rest of America is eating Cheerios or trying to face gridlock without hyperventilating, about a dozen women, naked from the waist down, lie with eyes closed in a velvet-curtained room, while clothed men huddle over them, stroking them in a ritual known as orgasmic meditation ...

I never liked Cheerios.

19 posted on 03/15/2009 8:02:53 PM PDT by spodefly (This is my tag line. There are many like it, but this one is mine.)
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LOL!
Mine was telling my husband that our toddler was too old for diapers, so HE had to handle all the toilet training for the boy.


20 posted on 03/15/2009 8:03:14 PM PDT by tbw2 (Freeper sci-fi - "Humanity's Edge" - on amazon.com)
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