I have a similar book problem. I have already given away several hundred books to used book stores, and I still have box after box of books sitting in the garage (not to mention all the full bookshelves in the house)! I am literally trying to convince my wife to consider used furniture as we speak. She said she will consider it, but only after we look at IKEA and Living Spaces first. What’s a guy to do?
Your wife really has things backwards. IKEA makes overpriced junk out of fiberboard. It may temporarily look attractive, but has no lasting value and will deteriorate with time.
But if you buy used furniture (and there’s lots of good stuff available, especially now) it will last for centuries. Refinish it and it looks new. Buy the right styles and they’ll never be out of fashion or look dated. Wooden furniture that’s not made of good mahogany, cherry, or walnut can be painted. One strong piece can make a room. Some of these things can be passed on to descendants when you are old, or resold.
You and your wife should consult some good shelter magazines for ideas. It just takes taste and imagination.
IKEA? You're kidding, right? Who would want that Swedish made, socialistic looking junk in their house????