They’re mad because she picks on the egg donor, instead of the sperm&run donor...
It’s not just “sperm and run”. Lots of women don’t tell Daddy or purposely exclude him, or use him only for his check book. I feel like the woman is in control of her fertility. She has many more options for prevention and can “just say no”.
The condom that never fails is the one held tightly between the knees!