[TalonDJ]

Just like before the marriage, women still like the attentiveness. The hair stroking, the sweetness, a kiss for no reason.

Sure, but no sense in waiting around for that to happen. Women can step up and occsionally kiss HIM for no reason. Maybe he is just too distracted by things to remember to do the little things. If she is just sitting waiting for him to fire her up and then getting offened if he wants sex without much forplay... That attitude is right along with what our society says these days. It is all the men's fault and nothing is ever her fault.

[Scotswife]

“Women can step up and occsionally kiss HIM for no reason.”

amen!

Do it all the time!

[HungarianGypsy]

I was just explaining how women work. It does go both ways. The way Prager writes is just as damaging to a relationship. How many times (not necessarily you) do guys not pay attention to the niceties and then jump on their wives at the end of the night, yet wondering why they aren’t turned on right away. As another poster said, it feels like being a blow up doll. When we go along with it because we feel we have to, then the man notices it. That’s more damaging than just saying “no” in the long run as the resentment on both sides grows.