You beat me to it! Takes a heck of a lot more than a sperm to be a dad.
I say again, the issue is not whether or not he is a father yet. It is is incontrovertible that he is ontologically the father of his child. The only issue is whether or not he will be a good father.
I know Roe v. Wade and the culture of death has worked its utmost to destroy this fundamental identity between fathers and their children, but I refuse to succumb to it.
Cordially,