That is not a problem. I already do the shopping and she is already planning the post op diet. The medical team has very specific instructions and Mrs D is very good at following such instructions.
She makes charts!
I knew the actual name of your wife as the pro-life heroine that she has always been long before I ever heard of Free Republic. A rosary for her and your family is on its way. God bless all of you and please convey my personal best wishes to her.