Prayers to your wife, to you Don-O, and your family.
It’s your responsibility to make sure she doesn’t cheat on the post-op diet. That means you might have to do the grocery shopping too. If she can’t buy it she can’t eat it. Lessoned learned in my family from a successful operation and recovery once the diet was being followed.
That is not a problem. I already do the shopping and she is already planning the post op diet. The medical team has very specific instructions and Mrs D is very good at following such instructions.
She makes charts!