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My Life in a Polygamist Compound
Slate ^ | 04/16/08 | Torie Bosch

Posted on 04/18/2008 8:38:05 AM PDT by DFG

When Texas authorities seized 416 children in a raid on a compound of the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Americans quickly learned that the religious group encourages polygamy and the marriage of young girls to older men. Escape, a memoir published last fall, offers a more detailed portrait of life with the FLDS. In the book, Carolyn Jessop, a sixth-generation polygamist describes her life as the fourth wife of Merril Jessop, who ran the recently raided Texas compound. Carolyn left Merril in 2003, before he moved to Texas, but her memoir sheds light on the man and on the beliefs and practices common within the insular community. Below, Slate flags Carolyn's most intriguing, strange, and heartbreaking allegations.

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TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: escape; flds; jessop; mormon; polygamy
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To: Old Mountain man

Yep it was me. Rah rah siss boom bah.


481 posted on 04/19/2008 9:38:39 AM PDT by colorcountry (To anger a conservative, lie to him. To anger a liberal, tell him the truth.)
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To: Texas_shutterbug
"Your defense:

This is the ultimate sin to modern society and must be destroyed at all costs. A patriarchal model where the husband/male leader sets the rules. To reach this goal, politically-unpopular male-led societies must be shown to be criminal and 'mean'.

It wasn't a defense. I was making the point that politically-unpopular male-led societies are being used against the patriarchal model because male authority must be destroyed at all costs and replaced with a matriarchal model. Consider that if males have no authority beyond what women agree with, then we do have a matriarchal society.

"No, thanks. Where men set ALL the rules, women have no rights. I'd rather not be ruled by the likes of the FLDS henchmen and "prophet."

Well, extreme positions can go be proposed both ways. Let's see if I can emulate your example. "Likewise, where women set ALL the rules, men have no rights. I'd rather not be ruled by the likes of the Rosie O'Donnell and 'prophet' Oprah Winfrey."

482 posted on 04/19/2008 9:38:55 AM PDT by GourmetDan (Eccl 10:2 - The heart of the wise inclines to the right, but the heart of the fool to the left.)
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To: GourmetDan
You defended the male patriarchal model using a quote that talked about the male leaders of this cult removing children from their families!

If you don't see the extreme abuse in this kind of "patriarchy," I can only make some assumptions that would probably get me banned if I listed them. And honestly, there is nothing you can say that would make me believe that you don't support this, so please don't bother trying.

483 posted on 04/19/2008 9:54:23 AM PDT by Texas_shutterbug
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To: SkyPilot
" The Admin Moderator didn't send you a mail saying you could not debate any further last night - did he?"

And I never claimed that they did. That was a requirement that you made up.

"I asked you in a response to the Freepmail you sent to me a copy of the Admin Mods mail (if there was one) as proof that you were warned to not debate anymore, and you never responded."

Again, I never ever claimed that the Mod sent me such an email. You are the only one who has made such a claim.

I will post no more on this thread.

484 posted on 04/19/2008 9:59:17 AM PDT by GourmetDan (Eccl 10:2 - The heart of the wise inclines to the right, but the heart of the fool to the left.)
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To: ansel12

>>It included 15 year olds<<

???? The chart says it excluded them.


485 posted on 04/19/2008 10:05:42 AM PDT by ding_dong_daddy_from_dumas (I want to "Buy American" but the only things for sale made in the USA are politicians)
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To: SkyPilot

Which one of em was still playing hide the salami with him? Right, the young one with the sick look on her face.


486 posted on 04/19/2008 10:12:20 AM PDT by gost2
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To: GourmetDan; greyfoxx39; MHGinTN; Tennessee Nana
And I never claimed that they did. That was a requirement that you made up. Again, I never ever claimed that the Mod sent me such an email. You are the only one who has made such a claim. I will post no more on this thread.

I didn't make anything "up."

You told me that "the debate but the moderator has decided that I must stop."

I said the mods didn't tell you to stop posting, and you obviously had not been banned - so send me a copy of what the mods sent you telling you that could not talk anymore.

It was all a ruse.

I only post that because you brought it up here on the forum, not me.

Then you left and wouldn't answer the question about whether Joseph Smith violated Christ's teachings.

Now you have refused to answer for the forth time and are telling us you won't post anymore on this thread.

But, I bet you will spring up again like a virus on another thread - yes? What will your excuse be if you don't like a question or to respond to LDS inquiries? Your dog ate your homework? Cat got your tongue?

Do us all a favor.

Either come here to talk freely, or don't come at all. If you want the luxury of drifting in and out and then beating a path for the front door when things do not go your way, then you really are just wasting everyone's time.

487 posted on 04/19/2008 10:15:49 AM PDT by SkyPilot ("I wasn't in church during the time when the statements were made.")
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To: gost2
Carolyn was the youngest of his wives. Also the most attractive. He had 8 children with her in only 15 years.

She got out - and the story of the "Alpha Females" clawing at her as she tried to get her kids in the van at 4 am is riveting.

I thank God she is out of that hell.


488 posted on 04/19/2008 10:38:04 AM PDT by SkyPilot ("I wasn't in church during the time when the statements were made.")
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To: metmom

Fruit from a poisoned tree......look, you’ve seen enough TV that every bad guy gets off when the resulting information gathered from a false supposition (assertation, allegation, etc.) is eventually proved to be false.....


489 posted on 04/19/2008 10:50:15 AM PDT by Gaffer
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To: DoughtyOne; Politicalmom
Some girls refer to weeks and others refer to months, so I guess your observation makes as much sense as mine.

If you were a young girl that was AFRAID she was pregnant, you would be counting DAYS since your last period. If you were regular as clockwork, and were two weeks late, you would be pretty sure of pregnancy. You could very well say you were two weeks pregnant.

As a woman who had children before "the pill" I can guarantee a couple of weeks would be a sign. Those children are not allowed to practice any birth control.

490 posted on 04/19/2008 10:55:46 AM PDT by greyfoxx39 (Are there any WOMEN FReepers who agree that the 1st. Amendment OKs sexual slavery?)
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To: ansel12; DoughtyOne

>>there was no reason for them to go younger<<

So you claim that before FLDS, there were never any marriages, informal or otherwise, under the age of 15? Note that, if some historian were to do charts about marriages in 2000-2008, none of the FLDS underage people would be in any official marriage records.

I believe that some of the children (perhaps not all) in the El Dorado compound were victims of despicable and illegal child abuse. And while I do think that this kind of abuse was more tolerated in the past, that does not make it right, either now or then.

Slavery was, in some parts of the country, legal and generally accepted 150 years ago. If your family and neighbors all thought that slavery was acceptable, it would be more difficult to see that it was wrong. You might think of the time that your neighbor took your mother to the doctor, rather than than the fact that he beat his slaves cruelly. Slavery, although it was practiced by people who had virtues in many other aspects, was nonetheless an evil institution.

I hope that some day that people in this nation can look back with shame on the days when abortion was widely tolerated and had very few legal restrictions. In fact, you probably know that the abortion industry in some cases helps child rapists by not notifying the authorities.


491 posted on 04/19/2008 11:05:00 AM PDT by ding_dong_daddy_from_dumas (I want to "Buy American" but the only things for sale made in the USA are politicians)
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To: Colofornian
If you aren't going to address my simple question, then there really no further need for discussion. Once again, How can a sinless God grant a blessing that is sin?

you keep insisting that polygamy, no matter how many wives or whatever form, is somehow God’s will and a “blessing” from God.

You are in error sir. My insistence is that there is no scripture that shows having more than one wife (polygamy) is against God's will (sin). You have yet to show otherwise. So lets make this simple for you - show me where having a second wife is against God's will. Show me a single verse of scripture where a Prophet or an Apostle or Jesus himself condemned a man for having a second wife.

492 posted on 04/19/2008 11:07:13 AM PDT by taxcontrol
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To: metmom

Great post, MM.


493 posted on 04/19/2008 11:10:52 AM PDT by greyfoxx39 (Are there any WOMEN FReepers who agree that the 1st. Amendment OKs sexual slavery?)
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To: All

People did many things in the Bible that were NOT according to God’ perfect plan, but he allowed them.

Sarah caused thousands of years of problems due to her lack of faith.

God allowed Israel to choose a king, although He did NOT want them to have one.

God’s perfect plan is CLEARLY monogamy.


494 posted on 04/19/2008 11:13:56 AM PDT by Politicalmom (Better a leftist Dem with energized GOP opposition, than a leftist "Republican" with no opposition.)
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To: Politicalmom
God allowed Israel to choose a king, although He did NOT want them to have one. God’s perfect plan is CLEARLY monogamy.

Amen.

495 posted on 04/19/2008 11:20:39 AM PDT by SkyPilot ("I wasn't in church during the time when the statements were made.")
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To: SkyPilot

I’ll answer your question with a like question. Does a man who is married commit lust in his heart when he lays with his wife?


496 posted on 04/19/2008 11:21:03 AM PDT by taxcontrol
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To: taxcontrol; Colofornian; colorcountry

And the defense of polygamy beat goes on....placemark. Thornton, CO, huh?


497 posted on 04/19/2008 11:22:53 AM PDT by greyfoxx39 (Are there any WOMEN FReepers who agree that the 1st. Amendment OKs sexual slavery?)
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To: taxcontrol

Are you aware of the requirements for NT head of a church, bishop, or other leadership in the Apostolic established Church? Are you a Mormon?


498 posted on 04/19/2008 11:26:44 AM PDT by MHGinTN (Believing they cannot be deceived, they cannot be convinced when they are deceived.)
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To: taxcontrol; metmom; CindyDawg; ansel12; MizSterious; Pan_Yans Wife; pandoraou812; Pebcak; ...
I’ll answer your question with a like question. Does a man who is married commit lust in his heart when he lays with his wife?

Are you serious?

I mean really?

You are actually asking me this question?

499 posted on 04/19/2008 11:27:54 AM PDT by SkyPilot ("I wasn't in church during the time when the statements were made.")
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To: truth_seeker

I never said that the laws of the United States are against polygamy. And I whole heartedly agree that sex with minors should not be allowed and should be fully prosecuted under the law. In fact, I would prefer that the various state not allow anyone under the age of 18 to give consent and as such should prosecute under statutory ALL cases of minors who are pregnant, not just going after a specific religious group.

Actually, the lead is serving time for performing a marriage service for a 19 year old to a 14 year old, which under Texas law, requires approval of a Judge.


500 posted on 04/19/2008 11:28:18 AM PDT by taxcontrol
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