I think your description is accurate.... for you and me and about everyone. That is why we need a Savior to stand in our place. God chose to Love and save us when we were all those things you described, not after we got saved and straightened our lives up.
Absolutely!
People change. People learn may it be formally, or informally through simple life experiences. People often learn from their mistakes and regret bad past decisions. Some don’t find God until in the latter part of their life. However, I truly believe that only a small minority of women who have abortions truly ever reach such a point where they have any concept or even concern for what they did. Think about this, many of these women have “multiple” abortions in a lifetime. Why do you think?
Your post is what I should have written. Excellent.