I’ve been working for a Turkish dentist for the past 6 months. His 2nd wife was not Muslim. He seems like a non-practicing, “secular” Muslim. Many of our patients are from the local Turkish community. Half the time, I can’t tell they’re Turkish by looking at them. Many of them have fairer complexions with light brown hair and blue or green eyes. They dress normally. Many of them are incredibly good-looking! One thing I CAN say is that these Muslims may inter-marry, but they do NOT convert!
Dunno about Turkish men, but there are some beautiful Middle Eastern women, especially Iranians.
Many Turks often don’t look like Arabs. The Turkish Prime Minister is an example, just from seeing him you’d never guess he was Middle Eastern. About half of Turkey is more Westernized (the side closer to Europe) and don’t particularly care for the Arabs. The other side is more diehard Islam-oriented.