My wife and I have toddler girls, we have already decided that they will go to private Catholic schools. We will make whatever sacrifices for them to get a good Christain education.
"Whater sacrifices" - check into home schooling if you're that committed.
Read this - it's what convinced me:
http://www.amazon.com/So-Youre-Thinking-About-Homeschooling/dp/1590520858
good on you both. my oldest daughter is headed to an authentically Catholic college [U of Dallas], as a freshman, this very week. my kids have gone to catholic school from preschool on.