“There is no such thing as an overriding “sexual orientation” which would drive someone to behave in so oppositionally to every norm of society.”
That’s a good point. During the decades when homosexuality was illegal and homos were despised, why would anyone choose to be ostracized and jailed? And for what?
If there’s no such thing as an overriding sexual orientation, what would it take for a hetero to go gay? Some gay porn? You couldn’t make me get stirred over some guy’s hairy ass, and it has nothing to do with just thinking it over.
“would it take for a hetero to go gay?” the question is nonsequitor because there is no “gay”? There are just people who happen to prefer sex with the same sex as they happen to be.
That doesn’t make them inherently a different sort of person anymore than someone who prefers to steal or lie rather than be honest is an inherently different kind of person.
All three are wrong. People can refrein from all three behaviours and will feel better about themselves in each case because they are functionin within there created purpose.
(Again there are only two sexual orientations... inies and outies... after that it’s all pretty much preference.)