Nice. In short I'm an ass because you don't like what I have to say. This is a forum toots, and if you can't take the heat stay out of the kitchen. Well you and that other pompous bloviating bag of wind, seanmerc can go (fill in the blank)
Different people have different levels of compassion, understanding and sensitivity. It's pretty rare to run across someone (such as yourself) who seems to completely lack those qualities.
Yeah, no one knows more than you. Especially not those of us fighting this battle on a daily basis.