Different people have different levels of compassion, understanding and sensitivity. It's pretty rare to run across someone (such as yourself) who seems to completely lack those qualities.
Oooh did I hurtems wittle feewings? Yes we should all be so sensitive that we never say anything that anyone could possibly be offended by. I guess I forgot to read the rule about not huring the feelings of those who troll on the forum with some supposed special circumstance that allows them to criticize others, but be immune from hearing anything that they don't want to hear.
SAY, You're one of the Jersy Girls aren't you.
Last time I looked this was a political forum, not a support group, and the facts are that stage IV cancer is bad news. My saying it doesn't make it any more or less true. If my saying that she will probably be dead in two years and the Edwards is jerk for continuing his campaign offends you then tough - go post someplace else.