Why Not?..
All points have already been made.. except the point are you my friend or not??..
NOT Going to the, whatever it is, makes no positive point whatever..
Going to it however makes no negative point..
Love, faithfullness, commitment should be expressed.. if due..
Would be an excellent testimony to friendship..
That is if friendship IS NOT JUST A WORD...
The opposite is true, but this is not about making a point. It is about participating in an immoral celebration just so we don't step on toes. But if you want to make it about points: Not going makes the point one may not approve (even without stating an answer). Attending makes the affirmative point of participating in their mad little fantasy.