Well, you won't be assailed by me. I only wish I had more than two thumbs to put up. No-fault divorce has been great for half-assed lawyers. Claims of "spousal abuse" which are all-too-often completely fabricated give women the upper hand to take nearly everything, especially the children. I think most of them get some "Lifetime Movie" picture of finding a "new Dad" and creating some bull---"blended family" so the want "old Dad" out of the picture entirely. I have 2 kids who are now teenagers and I have fought and won in my relationships with them - paid my dues to where no one else would ever have been able to "play Dad" with them. But, it's not easily done. I wouldn't get married again for the simple reason that there's too much to be lost - and way too easily.
Been there, doing that.