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Not married yet.

She is an immigrant with applications sitting in the INS for ten years.
We were called into her immigration lawyer's office and told to wait a few months because if I married her last weekend, it would through her decade old cases out the window.

Problems with the marriage issue and the INS is she works in Beverly Hills taking care of someone and I visit her there and she comes home as well.
That is like having two places we practice marriage at.
That is unconventional and raises red flags with the INS.

The problem is we are real, others have been false, and the previous fraud of others is hurting us.

I figure we will marry in Los Angeles in the summer or soon after.

We went on the vacation, she had headaches before we went from the emotional strain of the immigration issues.

Her mother screwed up and could have had her straightened away before she was 18, but the mother was thoughtless and kind of didn't care.

It will work out, but we would have liked to already have been married. :-(