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From picture 14 on Oprah's site...

Dr. Clint Van Zandt is a former FBI profiler, an MSNBC analyst and the author of the book Facing Down Evil. He is also the victim of a child snatching that he was lucky enough to quickly escape from when he was 7 years old. As a victim and a law enforcement officer, Clint says he understands why people in Shawn and Ben's situation wouldn't call home.

Clint warns people not to buy into the "psychobabble" they might hear on television. "The bottom line is if you're 11 or 13 and you've got a potentially 6-foot-4, 300-pound aggressor…you do what you have to do to survive sometimes," Clint says.

During Ben and Shawn's healing process, Clint says it's imperative not to ask one simple question. "What we don't want to do is say, 'Why?' Why didn't you call? Why didn't you pick up the phone?" Clint says. "Because he was traumatized. Because he was frightened. Because he was in a survival mode. There are emotional handcuffs. There are psychological prisons we can be in without bars."

Clint also says to give these boys time. "We need to give these two kids some slack and let them have time to find themselves," Clint says. "Let them create new memories."


1,514 posted on 01/18/2007 10:51:44 AM PST by stlnative
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"psychobabble" = Bill O'Reilly


1,515 posted on 01/18/2007 10:54:45 AM PST by stlnative
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I am just speculating here, but if Devil did kill earlier boys, he may have showed Shawn that evidence.


1,518 posted on 01/18/2007 11:28:24 AM PST by mel
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"During Ben and Shawn's healing process, Clint says it's imperative not to ask one simple question. "What we don't want to do is say, 'Why?' Why didn't you call? Why didn't you pick up the phone?" Clint says. "Because he was traumatized. Because he was frightened. Because he was in a survival mode. There are emotional handcuffs. There are psychological prisons we can be in without bars." Clint also says to give these boys time. "We need to give these two kids some slack and let them have time to find themselves," Clint says. "Let them create new memories."

Wow, this is good. I guess Oprah did ask Shawn privately why he did not call his parents. It seems to me this question would cause shame and guilt in the victim which is the last thing one should do.

1,519 posted on 01/18/2007 11:34:23 AM PST by BonneBlue
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I sent Clint Van Zandt a thank you note via the contact page on his website.
1,719 posted on 01/19/2007 8:45:40 AM PST by NotJustAnotherPrettyFace
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