[Ditter]

Are you saying I am being cruel? I adopted 3 children, that was my point. I asked all 3 of my children when they turned 18 if they had any desire to located biological parents and they all said "Why should we?" Also my husband has an adopted sister and brother and of the whole group of adoptees only one, my husbands brother, had any interest in knowing who their biological parents were.

[bordergal]

I don't call encouraging single parents to deliberately create kids to satisfy their own needs a kind act. As you obviously know, there are already plenty of children out there who need good homes and have had to deal with absent parents.

Each child will react differently, but it was hard on my sister, and it appears from the article it was hard on this young lady.

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