Pity
It is funny.
I asked if you smoked and you replied it was none of my business.
Now you accuse me of being obsessed.
Really, is that your business or concern. You are the member of a group fighting for your right to die of smoke related illnesses relying on insults and faux conservatism to support you.
Sorry, nobody who doesn't share your habit wants your smoke in our space other than briefly.