Yes, I do believe men deserve something, and much better than American women have to offer. And I'm not looking overseas for a spouse: I found a wonderful wife there years ago, and we're still very happily married. American women lucky?! Most unhappy creatures I've ever encountered, and all their own doing.
LOL. Obviously you haven't encountered the Islamic females imprisoned in black robes and veils.
Islamic men think they are deserving too. Did they or you do something to deserve so much? Many many men here and especially in Islamic countries think like you.
The best man is one who loves and sacifices for family. There is a real man...the kind wife and kids love and respect in truth.