Well that's a reasoned well though out post BUT what about her whacko husband??
Zackly.
"...BUT what about her whacko husband??"
Exactly, as he is the one, after being told that she should have NO more children, allowed her to have the final baby. He in not without guilt in this sad, sad situation. He, also, will answer to God.
It is so hard for us. Human beings are impatient creatures. If our heads are screwed on straight, and we have a proper sense and desire for justice, we want to see it happen, NOW. The OJ case was hard for me, as an example, because indiviual citizen pattyjo, had to come to grips with the fact that there would be no justice for the victims....in this lifetime.
In this case, I KNOW, from my personal experience, that it is entirely possible Andrea was just too sick to allow reason to prevail. Horrible, a monumental tragedy was the result.
Back to her former husband though, yes, HE should have cared for his wife. He should have loved her so much that her mental health and stability, and thus the security of his children, should have been his number one priority. It obviously was not.
pattyjo