You still seem a little mixed-up. Anyone who pays taxes (everyone) supports the socialists. Unless you want to evade taxes, you can't escape that simple fact. As for the estate tax, I don't have kids, and don't expect to, so I don't think I'll be paying a dime in estate taxes. I plan to give my entire empire away--most likely to my wife, who I hope will live longer than I expect to.
Good for you. Each to his own.