You keep asserting this, yet when asked for any kind of verifiable facts, you dance away on excuses like you don't have time to look it up.
I'm sure you don't care, but you're not convincing in the least. I am open to looking at facts. The evidence against becoming ex-gay is scant, but it's at least something. I am not cemented in one position and can easily be swayed by evidence that convinces one way or the other.
I am guessing by your assertions and the lack of evidence at hand that there IS no evidence, that it's all based on personal assertions like yours. If so, just admit it. I won't be convinced, but at least we'll be on the same page.
I'm looking for facts, not someone saying 'Well, it's a fact' without backup--I'm sure you can understand that. I'm ready to be convinced, and if you don't care, that's fine, but if you want to start convincing anyone but yourself, you're going to have to come up with more than "because I say so."