Anyone who desires a child should think of the child's welfare first. Children need a mother and father; of course, sometimes a parent may die, or desert the family. That can't be helped. But to purposely condemn a child to a fatherless existence is pure selfishness. Such a woman is having a child as an appendage to fulfill her "needs", rather than thinking what is best for the child.
If a woman really, really wants a child, she should really, really find a husband.
Yes because being in a false marriage for the sole purpose of having a child is SO much better than being single. How would you like to be the man married to a woman who only married you to have a child? How long do you think that would last?
"But to purposely condemn a child to a fatherless existence is pure selfishness."
That is for God to judge the motive as being selfishness not you nor I.