[bert]

.....But there is something else going on.....

You didn't mention her son. He is in real trouble.

When he deserts her like Casey Sheehan did, she will slit her wrists.

[buwaya]

You have to pity the poor boy. This is likely (unless he is a lucky fellow) going to be generation 3 of mental problems

Mother (depression through grief) -> her (o/c and emotional instability) -> her son (who knows, but probably similar)