Those societies always included pederasty. The complaint among old men was concerning their young boys who would become young men and dump them for a younger more beautiful man or boy.
Spartans killed babies who were considered imperfect. When boys became ready to leave their mothers they were mentored by older men..introduced to the "joys" of homosexual sex. The boys became conditioned to be homosexual.
Women were only used as breeders. The men used each other for entertainment and discussions and soulmates...women were always second class citizens in homosexual societies...like in ancient and preWWII Japan and many other cultures.
You have no equality between the sexes in homosexual societies and slavery always existed. Lust is the No. l virtue along with pleasure (which never included women).
Homosexual cultures are extremely ugly for children and women. Christianity is what elevated the status of women and built upon the Jewish concept of marriage and the importance of sexual fidelity to strengthen the survival of women and children by having a protective male in their lives. It is a superior model to all other models that gave status and equality to women and gave protection to boys particularly.
In Sparta? Spartan women enjoyed rights not “provided” by the men in other Greek poleis. Women were essentially the head of household, very athletic, and educated (Taught to read and right).
Aristotle made fun of Spartan men because they actually gave certain privileges to the women, in which he found repugnant. Also, Spartans were not very fond of pederasty (You are thinking Athens). Spartan men were conditioned to marry and breed. Sodomy was practiced, but to be an exclusive homosexual was frowned upon. Same in other poleis. A full blown homosexual was the lowest of the low in Greek city-States.