How are you sure you wouldn't have had most of the same problems with a single parent but with the added negatives of missing parental care, one fewer wageearner, probable poverty, and a much more unstable home envronment that are associated with single parenthood?
Oh,for sure,a twp parent family upbringing brought me all kinds of advantages like the ones you mentioned.
But my folks were always playing power games based on fear.Being a man,I sympathized with my dad,a good hearted,kind man with a gentle soul.My mom was the hard driving aggressive sort and she thought she had married beneath her stature.
I have a lot of my dad in me.I stay away from hard nosed, ambitious women who are loud and belligerent.
Of course nowadays that doesn't leave much to choose from!