Oh,for sure,a twp parent family upbringing brought me all kinds of advantages like the ones you mentioned.
But my folks were always playing power games based on fear.Being a man,I sympathized with my dad,a good hearted,kind man with a gentle soul.My mom was the hard driving aggressive sort and she thought she had married beneath her stature.
I have a lot of my dad in me.I stay away from hard nosed, ambitious women who are loud and belligerent.
Of course nowadays that doesn't leave much to choose from!