Posted on 02/28/2006 1:23:15 AM PST by beaversmom
I didn't have children, so there was a lot of extra money available for investing. I definitely won't be a charity case. ;)
Exactly my thought. And exactly why we will homeschool our children when we have them. To say you won't have kids because you don't want to bring them into such a liberal world - pure nonsense. In that case, you are only perpetuating the problem. When liberals reproduce more and conservatives reproduce less, there end up being more liberals and fewer conservatives. Luckily, I think the "childfree" movement is generally more common among liberals.
"I have a major financial incentive to send my kids to public school. I'd never do it in a hundred years. Care to guess why?"
Because you couldn't afford a house in a good district, would be my guess.
Oh really? I'd love to see her research supporting this pronouncement.
There is a slight difference in a democratic take over versus the take over by a criminal gang. But, I guess you already know that...
"A big section of society is appalled at the notion that there are ladies who don't want to have a baby, and quite a lot of people aren't judgemental but still just can't get it."
I think that's why when these types of articles are posted, we see comments about how the childfree are selfish, ungodly, immature, liberal, etc.
People who want kids and have kids just don't understand those of us who don't want kids. That's really what it boils down to. And people therefore try to find an easy explanation for those who don't want kids: selfishness, ungodliness, immaturity, liberalness, etc.
Even if people don't understand others not wanting kids, at least they could be a little more accepting of people who are different.
Sounds like someone struck an exposed nerve of yours. Truth is, most people don't really know about life and what is important if they've not had children. Most simply don't "get it" until they do. You may not be one of those, but most are. Make of this what you will and no lectures please.
Of course it is troubling. The thing is, that Europe is a continent of immigration if it wants to survive. The declining birth rates are a fact and nobody can change those realities.
In the past many faults were made in the selection of those who are allowed to come to Europe. Espechially the former colonial nations opened their boarders to the people of their former colonies without checking them on their suitability. This was a major fault.
The more the muslims will riot the more the pressure is rising to deal hard with the problem. Therefore the recent torching of cars wasn't that bad. It woke up some lazy politicians to do something on it if they want to get elected in the future. There are some very easy things that can help:
1. Throw the fanatic hate mullahs out.
2. More capitalism will help Europe to give those rioting kids the jobs they need to be satisfied with themselves. People who work do not waste their time in torching cars.
3. Help the muslims to reform islam into something we all can live with. They need somehow a sort of Martin Luther to clean up with all this BS.
4. Help Christianity and Catholizism to its suitable position the the European society again. Therefore it will be also nessecary to reform some basic things without falling into the sort of relativism Benedict rightly criticized.
I have great faith in our people to deal with new conditions and to open the path to a good future. There are several reasons why I stay optimistic:
1. It is quite simple - Christanity is a much more interesting religion than Islam. Everyone who reads Bible in comparison to Koran and the Hadiths will find out that Muhammad was a bad plagiarist. He falsified Bible into a hazy shade he called Koran. This is something that has to be understood to take the recent trys of proselytization in Europe even-tempered and cool. It just doesn't work to change christian Europeans or even atheist Europeans into Muslims. Nobody execpt of some unsatisfied Idiots is interested into their BS.
2. Europe is in a major change in the moment. Among the important countries (France, Germany) it seems that the socialist gouvernments are replaced by something more capitalistic. Since we still have one of the biggest industrial frames within the whole world combined with a well educated workforce there is good chance for a major upturn.
3. In the long run our religion will find a suitable place again. There is much more grassroot spirituality among Europeans people from America could ever think of. In my comunity i.E. you will find a stable Christian basement. West (espechially south) Germany and rural France is deeply Christian soil. Of course there are areas were religion nearly vansihed (east Germany, Czech Republic, some parts of the big towns), but they are not representative for Europe.
Greetings from Lake Constance :-)
I'm so glad we have "transcended our biology". Puke.
Okay, then, "won't". However, why you get to make decisions about whether other people should or should not have children is amazingly intrusive. If they don't want to, your answer is to change into someone who wants to.
What other areas of strictly personal behavior would you like people to adopt so they square with what YOU believe?
People are free to do silly things.
That doesn't mean that we can't point out that they're being silly.
It's a free country. :P
Not everything that makes someone a bad parent can be willed away. Someone with severe bipolar disorder or schizophrenia cannot magically cure themselves, for instance.
Some people are just not called to be parents, period. I don't see why they should become parents anyway, just to validate your choice.
As for the idea that if you are childless, no one will take care of you when you are old, I think that the way you treat people during your life is far more important. My grandmother's brother was childless his entire life- he was extremely overweight until old age and never married. But he was a pleasant man who remained close to his sister, brother and their families. When he suffered a debilitating stroke a year before he died, he had to live in a nursing home. His family and friends visited everyday, talking to him, washing him, and making sure the nurses took care of him. The nurses would comment that he was the most visited patient that they ever had. Many other patients, most of whom had children, never had visitors. A few days before he suffered a second, fatal stroke, my whole family threw a birthday party for him, a celebration of what he meant to all of us. My great uncle was a good person in life, and he was rewarded by the love and care of others. Many parents, who gave birth but were unloving or even cruel to their children, will die alone and unloved.
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