[Further the American man has the government checking all this out for him abou the women. fair is fair.]
This shows me that you are thinking about the actual immigration procedures and not the initial "hello, my name is Jim"...which cannot and must not be regulated of course...
...but bizarrely now is.
Congress completely misunderstands the Internet.
When you're out at the laudramat 'hello' means hello.
When you walk into a business called 'Marriage for you' and say hello you're saying 'Hello, I'm interested in marrying you'. That's a lot different.