I never made any judgmental statement and there is no going round and round on my part. I made a simple statement that single mom is politically correct speech. It is either widowed, divorced, or unwed mother. You apparently are offended by one as you seem to read more into my statement than was intended.
I'm not offended at all.
And I understood your point the first time.
But - by wanting to spell out ~why~ the woman is a single mother, it does seem that you want folks to judge her based on how she got that way.
Or am I just reading you wrong?