I'm not offended at all.
And I understood your point the first time.
But - by wanting to spell out ~why~ the woman is a single mother, it does seem that you want folks to judge her based on how she got that way.
Or am I just reading you wrong?
I am not wanting a why in particular because I think it is irrelevant. Choices people make are personal and they should be responsible for their choices, be it day care, marriage, divorce or whatever. Divorced, widowed and unwed are legitimate terms in our society and were used until the liberals came along with politically correct speech and disguised the above as single moms. Seems it is a bad thing if the liberals use it but if it suits the conservatives on a personal level we all should accept it. Well I don't. It is politically correct speech and has victim written all over it. See post 214.