yea, yea, everything has to be through rose-colored glasses today because we can't take responsibility for our situation.
There is absolutely nothing rose-colored about being a single parent. Regardless of how it happened.
And I have taken responsibility for my situation by working hard and making sacrifices.
I certainly do not need or would ever want any type of help from someone as condescending as you.
There are much better people out there who don't sit upon their pedestal pooh-poohing the troubles of others by saying they've brought it upon themselves.