And the US Govt. should realize that pampering India's enemies (the same ones who protet and shelter Bin Laden) isn't going to help relations between both countries either.
Friendship is not a one-way street.
If you're talking about Pakistan, what do you want? India's been trying to deal with Pakistan since its founding and hasn't done a very good job, now have they? The military government there is the best that can be hoped for at the present time.
Pakistan is in so much hot water that even the Chinese have curtailed their shipments of weapons to them.