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The anti-gun male
Julia Gorin

Posted on 01/30/2006 10:00:41 AM PST by Jotmo

LET'S be honest. He's scared of the thing. That's understandable--so am I. But as a girl I have the luxury of being able to admit it. I don't have to masquerade squeamishness as grand principle-in the interest of mankind, no less.

A man does. He has to say things like "One Taniqua Hall is one too many," as a New York radio talk show host did in referring to the 9-year old New York girl who was accidentally shot last year by her 12-year old cousin playing with his uncle's gun. But the truth is he desperately needs Taniqua Hall, just like he needs as many Columbines and Santees as can be mustered, until they spell an end to the Second Amendment. And not for the benefit of the masses, but for the benefit of his self-esteem.

He often accuses men with guns of "compensating for something." The truth is quite the reverse. After all, how is he supposed to feel knowing there are men out there who aren't intimidated by the big bad inanimate villain? How is he to feel in the face of adolescent boys who have used the family gun effectively in defending the family from an armed intruder? So if he can't touch a gun, he doesn't want other men to be able to either. And to achieve his ends, he'll use the only weapon he knows how to manipulate: the law.

Of course, sexual and psychological insecurities don't account for ALL men against guns. Certainly there must be some whose motives are pure, who perhaps do care so much as to tirelessly look for policy solutions to teenage void and aggressiveness, and to parent and teacher negligence. But for a potentially large underlying contributor, psycho-sexual inadequacy has gone unexplored and unacknowledged. It's one thing to not be comfortable with a firearm and therefore opt to not keep or bear one. But it's another to impose the same handicap onto others.

People are suspicious of what they do not know-and not only does this man not know how to use a gun, he doesn't know the men who do, or the number of people who have successfully used one to defend themselves from injury or death. But he is better left in the dark; his life is hard enough knowing there are men out there who don't sit cross-legged. That they're able to handle a firearm instead of being handled by it would be too much to bear.

Such a man is also best kept huddled in urban centers, where he feels safer than he might if thrown out on his own into a rural setting, in an isolated house on a quiet street where he would feel naked and helpless. Lacking the confidence that would permit him to be sequestered in sparseness, and lacking a gun, he finds comfort in the cloister of crowds.

The very ownership of a gun for defense of home and family implies some assertiveness and a certain self-reliance. But if our man kept a gun in the house, and an intruder broke in and started attacking his wife in front of him, he wouldn't be able to later say, "He had a knife--there was nothing I could do!" Passively watching in horror while already trying to make peace with the violent act, scheduling a therapy session and forgiving the perpetrator before the attack is even finished wouldn't be the option it otherwise is.

No. Better to emasculate all men. Because let's face it: He's a lover, not a fighter. And he doesn't want to get shot in case he has an affair with your wife.

Of course, it wouldn't be completely honest not to admit that owning a firearm carries with it some risk to unintended targets. That's the tradeoff with a gun: The right to defend one's life and way of life isn't without peril to oneself. And the last thing this man wants to do is risk his life-if even to save it. For he is guided by a dread fear for his life, and has more confidence in almost anyone else's ability to protect him than his own, preferring to place himself at the mercy of the villain or in the sporadically competent hands of authorities (his line of defense consisting of locks, alarm systems, reasoning with the attacker, calling the police or, should fighting back occur to him, thrashing a heavy vase).

In short, he is a man begging for subjugation. He longs for its promise of equality in helplessness. Because only when that strange, independent alpha breed of male is helpless along with him will he feel adequate. Indeed, his freedom lies in this other man's containment.


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To: mountn man
"...it's just that in America we don't need to have them (guns) in our Home...

...First, owning a gun means you're the first line of defense for your family and home...

Amen, brother, like these folks found out...

Link To Armed Citizen (NRA)

101 posted on 01/30/2006 12:07:07 PM PST by Chinito (6990th Security Group, RC-135/Combat Apple, SEA Class of '68)
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To: uglybiker

There are tools, units, and meat, but no guns!


102 posted on 01/30/2006 12:12:16 PM PST by JillValentine (To be compassionate to the cruel is to be cruel to the compassionate.)
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To: ozzymandus
"Compensating" is stuffing a sock in your underwear like some rock star.

Thanks for your input, Ozzy.

;O)

103 posted on 01/30/2006 12:13:22 PM PST by newgeezer (Sarcasm content: 50.00%)
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To: Jotmo

Bump!


104 posted on 01/30/2006 12:14:23 PM PST by YoungCurmudgeon (I slept and dreamed that life was beauty. I woke to find that life is duty.)
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To: Grut
I'm also assuming that the safety is on.

Er....

I was going to say something too, but your eloquence far out weighs anything I could post...

105 posted on 01/30/2006 12:14:35 PM PST by Chinito (6990th Security Group, RC-135/Combat Apple, SEA Class of '68)
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To: Michael Goldsberry

Appears to be hollow points. Good choice.


106 posted on 01/30/2006 12:17:07 PM PST by BamaAndy (Heart & Iron--the story of America through an ordinary family. ISBN: 1-4137-5397-3)
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To: Jotmo

Ahh...yeah. I have long believed that American liberal politics provide a cover for cowardly males. Anti-gun males are mostly cowards squared IMO. Better men and now women protect their right to be wussies.


107 posted on 01/30/2006 12:22:40 PM PST by alarm rider (Irritating leftists as often as is humanly possible....)
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To: acad1228

No safetys per se on resolvers my friend.

But most newer weapons have transfer bars that move into place to transfer the hammer blow to the firing pin when the trigger is pulled - this prevents a weapon from discharging by accident if dropped on the exposed hammer.

Most new SA & DA's have this feature.


108 posted on 01/30/2006 12:28:02 PM PST by Marxbites (Freedom is the negation of Govt to the maximum extent possible)
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To: Melas
"However, I digress. Having taught self-defense, I can say with certainty that the worst thing that anyone can do is arm the man (or woman) who doesn't have that fighting spirit. A weapon in the hands of the person who lacks the will to cause grievous injury or even death, is a weapon that will never be used in time. Picking on the gentler people (Christ called them the meek) because they are gentle is pointless and cruel. Cajoling them into posturing as tough guys, when there is no way they'll ever really be tough guys is just reckless and places them in even more danger than they'd otherwise be in."

An acquaintence of mine teaches rape prevention. He offered concealed carry as a solution since he lives in a concealed carry state. One student insisted that she could never shoot a potential rapist. He asked his class who wouldn't shoot a rapist and maybe 1/3rd to half the class raised their hands. He then asked who would shoot someone wanting to rape their children and all but one or two raise their hands. While I'll agree that some people are born victims, I do not think it is a very large number.

Finally, I disagree with your usage of the term 'meek'. 'Meekness' does not equate wimpiness. Many of the quite, meek people I know are quite tough, but sometimes the biggest 'tough guys' are in reality the biggest wimps.

109 posted on 01/30/2006 12:46:15 PM PST by jjm2111
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To: jjm2111

Sorry, I disagree with your friend. A lot of people who think they could shoot an intruder find they can't. Not everyone is cut out for physical conflict, armed or unarmed, period. Nothing you can say will ever change my mind on this, as I've come to this conclusion after years of first had experience.


110 posted on 01/30/2006 12:59:00 PM PST by Melas (What!? Read or learn something? Why would anyone do that, when they can just go on being stupid)
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To: Jotmo

The same arguments apply to the embracing of pacifism.


111 posted on 01/30/2006 1:18:55 PM PST by HIDEK6
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To: Melas

Perhaps you are right. My own first hand experience is fairly limited.


112 posted on 01/30/2006 1:19:06 PM PST by jjm2111
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To: Jotmo

It seems I read this years ago. What is the original publication?


113 posted on 01/30/2006 1:21:01 PM PST by School of Rational Thought (Republican - The thinking people's party)
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To: pabianice

Heard this same arguement from the diminutive Mitch Albom. The left's weakness is their irrationality.


114 posted on 01/30/2006 1:24:14 PM PST by School of Rational Thought (Republican - The thinking people's party)
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To: Melas
Sorry, I disagree with your friend. A lot of people who think they could shoot an intruder find they can't. Not everyone is cut out for physical conflict, armed or unarmed, period. Nothing you can say will ever change my mind on this, as I've come to this conclusion after years of first had experience

Perhaps you're right, perhaps not.

Regardless, I think the key point of the article was directed at those men who feel that they must restrict and/or eliminate the 2nd Amendment rights of ALL citizens, based upon their own decision against keeping and bearing arms.

I certainly believe that some number of people might have a "flight" vs "fight" reaction, when confronted with a given situation.

However, I don't believe that such individuals, having failed to "fight" in one situation will forever fail to "fight" in every situation. The intended victim might not fight a robbery, but might fight a brutal attack on a family member.

A most important point, to me, however is that when every citizen has the right to kba, those who would do harm to the innocent citizen doesn't know: a) whether his intended victim is/isn't armed, or b) whether this situation will bring out the "fight" reaction vs the "flight" situation in the intended victim.

[Of course, I hope that an armed citizen would, and by law could, react in the "fight" mode to defend himself, his family, and his property.]

115 posted on 01/30/2006 1:44:04 PM PST by Col Freeper
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To: LexBaird

elk....not stag...and blue steel vaqueros with parkarized 1911


116 posted on 01/30/2006 2:06:51 PM PST by Vaquero (time again for the Crusades.)
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To: Lx

american elk.....


http://eaglegrips.com/materials.htm


117 posted on 01/30/2006 2:27:12 PM PST by Vaquero (time again for the Crusades.)
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To: acad1228
I'm also assuming that the safety is on.

Revolvers don't have safeties, in the normal sense of something that you need to put "off" before the gun can be fired.

118 posted on 01/30/2006 7:56:06 PM PST by El Gato (The Second Amendment is the Reset Button of the U.S. Constitution)
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