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UF requirement for partner benefits: You must have sex
Gainsville Sun ^ | 1/23/06 | JACK STRIPLING

Posted on 01/23/2006 7:40:24 AM PST by Millee

niversity of Florida employees have to pledge that they're having sex with their domestic partners before qualifying for benefits under a new health care plan at the university.

The partners of homosexual and heterosexual employees are eligible for coverage under UF's plan, which will take effect in February. The enrollment process began this month, and some employees have expressed concern about an affidavit that requires a pledge of sexual activity.

Fielding questions about the pledge at a Faculty Senate meeting Thursday, UF's vice president of human resources said he's heard concerns about the affidavit, though overall feedback about the plan has been positive.

"I would say 95 percent of the affidavit is fine," Kyle Cavanaugh said in an interview after the meeting.

In addition to declaring joint financial obligations, prospective enrollees must "have been in a non-platonic relationship for the preceding 12 months," according to the affidavit.

Marylou Behnke, a UF senator, told Cavanaugh she found the requirement "offensive."

As a member of the Senate, representing faculty in UF's College of Medicine, Behnke said she was compelled to learn more about UF's plan. She said she was taken aback to find that employees would be required to swear to prior sexual activity, a standard not applied to married couples covered by UF's primary health care plan.

"Are you going to police it?" Behnke asked Cavanaugh.

Cavanaugh said he had no plans to personally enforce the sex pledge. The "non-platonic" clause is "increasingly standard" in domestic partnership plans, Cavanaugh said. The clause is one of several methods used to legally ensure that an employer is only obligated to cover employees in a committed relationship, not longtime roommates.

Shands HealthCare, which began offering domestic partnership benefits this month, also requires that employees declare a "non-platonic" relationship. Shands is an affiliate of UF, supporting the university's education and research efforts, but it is a private nonprofit entity with an independent health care plan. Like UF, Shands chose to offer domestic partnership benefits in order to stay competitive, said Kim Rose, Shands spokeswoman. Rose said she did not know whether Shands' Board of Directors, which approved the plan, was influenced by UF's decision to offer domestic benefits.

Concerns about the "non-platonic" clause may lead UF to change the language of the affidavit, Cavanaugh said.

"I would anticipate we would take a hard look at trying to modify it," he said.

Any modifications to the plan won't likely be made in the first enrollment cycle, which ends Jan. 30, Cavanaugh said. But by October, when employees enroll for benefits again, there may be changes to the affidavit, he said.

Between five and 10 people have enrolled in the plan already, Cavanaugh said, and more than 100 have attended orientations to learn about the benefits. UF officials anticipate that as many as 120 people will enroll in the plan, which will cost the university about $1 million a year.

Confidentiality is promised to UF employees enrolled in any health care plan, but Behnke said she had concerns about whether the affidavit might lead to discrimination if it ended up in the wrong hands. Pledging an active homosexual relationship, as the affidavit requires for gay couples, could potentially bar an individual from participation in organizations like the Boy Scouts or the military, Behnke said.

Kim Tanzer, chair of the Faculty Senate, said she could understand why some faculty might view the affidavit as invasive.

"I can see (Behnke's) point," she said. "If you ask married folks if they're in a platonic relationship, that's a personal question."


TOPICS: Culture/Society; US: Florida
KEYWORDS: homosexualagenda
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To: peacebaby

They might slam you home.


101 posted on 01/23/2006 11:32:22 AM PST by Lazamataz (I have a Chinese family renting an apartment from me. They are lo mein tenants.)
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To: DouglasKC
Actually I would think the next step is for staffers to rent two bedroom apartments then to supplement their income by renting a room along with discounted medical benefits.

For rent: Room in 2 bedroom apartment with shared kitchen.

Walking distance to university transit, heat, HW, no copay Medical and Dental included.

Gender not an issue, no pets, smokers or republicans.

102 posted on 01/23/2006 11:32:32 AM PST by tcostell
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To: Lazamataz

no, do you think? I can't stand getting in trouble.


103 posted on 01/23/2006 11:37:21 AM PST by peacebaby (thanks for reminding me that it's not about me)
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To: Millee; ArtyFO
Does oral sex qualify? Can I get benefits for my sheep?

You have oral sex with your sheep? EWE!

104 posted on 01/23/2006 11:41:54 AM PST by rmh47 (Go Kats! - Got Seven? [NRA Life Member])
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To: MillerCreek

TY This really is aggravating. No one has ever offered me special status but seems like half the country is willing to give the sodomists anything they want.


105 posted on 01/23/2006 12:31:30 PM PST by tutstar (Baptist Ping List Freepmail me if you want on or off this ping list.)
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To: tutstar

Yeah, many of us reason exactly as you do.

I also note that they are even taking precautions to avoid having the homosexuals declare that they are (so, are they going to use hand signals and puppets or what to declare themselves as homosexuals?), such that they don't want the homosexuals to have to admit they're homosexuals to anyone else to avoid being named as homosexuals...

It's as if there's now an entire alternate universe of double meanings and secret codes. I wouldn't be surprised if they started issueing Homosexual Hand Shakes or something just to "keep it quiet" outside Human Resources and homosexual employees.

But just TRY getting medical leave for a pregnancy, a husband with a broken leg, a child with a fever...


106 posted on 01/23/2006 12:58:20 PM PST by MillerCreek
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To: DirtyHarryY2K

Another symptom of societal illness.

Sometimes even married couples abstain from sexual relations for one reason or another.

What will they need next - a video?


107 posted on 01/23/2006 12:59:30 PM PST by little jeremiah
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To: tutstar

I'm actually a bit more self centered about this, given that I paid for all my college myself by very hard work and a whole lot of deprivation while in full-time college. The whole ordeal...

Self centered in the sense that it cost me nearly my vital essence so many times just to finish and pay all the bills and then I read about yet another MILLION DOLLAR PLUS price tag for a mere 100 or something (article wrote, I now can't recall exact number but I remember it was slight, not like hundreds of thousands of individuals). At student expense because the University isn't just going to pony up the million+ out of faculty donations or reduced prices for gum and candy.


108 posted on 01/23/2006 1:00:57 PM PST by MillerCreek
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To: peacebaby

I'm perfectly serious. Black and white people do have sex. Sometimes even together! :^)


109 posted on 01/23/2006 1:09:42 PM PST by John O (God Save America (Please))
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To: John O

well, I know that, silly!

but that's not what I meant by the my comment.

:~)


110 posted on 01/23/2006 1:11:39 PM PST by peacebaby (thanks for reminding me that it's not about me)
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To: Millee

Why aren't longtime roomates regarded as committed? Sounds sexist to me.


111 posted on 01/23/2006 1:13:24 PM PST by PeoplesRepublicOfWashington (How long do we have to pretend that Democrats are patriots?)
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To: peacebaby

I missed it then. I guess I'm just slow today (But I've heard women like that sometimes)


112 posted on 01/23/2006 1:15:05 PM PST by John O (God Save America (Please))
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To: Lazamataz; peacebaby
Laz: I want to enter you in the Guiness Books . . .

. . . or anywhere else for that matter.

113 posted on 01/23/2006 1:17:00 PM PST by Larry Lucido
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To: John O

It's ok, John O. My point was that sex between partners/spouses isn't black and white. There are all sorts of problems with this issue, i.e. what if one partner is a quadraplegic? What happens then?

University of Florida isn't thinking.

And I went to Florida State, their rival.


114 posted on 01/23/2006 1:17:45 PM PST by peacebaby (thanks for reminding me that it's not about me)
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To: Larry Lucido; Lazamataz

very funny.

double entendre


115 posted on 01/23/2006 1:19:25 PM PST by peacebaby (thanks for reminding me that it's not about me)
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To: peacebaby
My point was that sex between partners/spouses isn't black and white

OH I got that (And I agree). I guess I was just looking too hard for a humerous undertone.

116 posted on 01/23/2006 1:25:10 PM PST by John O (God Save America (Please))
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To: John O

is ok by me. :~)


117 posted on 01/23/2006 1:28:13 PM PST by peacebaby (thanks for reminding me that it's not about me)
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To: Millee

Huh? How does this work?


118 posted on 01/23/2006 7:43:09 PM PST by Lorianne
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To: longtermmemmory
The ORIGINAL reason argued for non-married but living together benefits was that they might produce children.

Maybe in some instances. In this case, and many others, I get the impression that they had to include hetrosexuals in order to avoid discrimination lawsuits when they included homosexual "partners".

So instead they are getting this "invasion of privacy" thing, as if just applying for the "cohabitation" health insurance wasn't pretty much changing "private" to "not so private" in the first place.

119 posted on 01/23/2006 8:59:34 PM PST by El Gato (The Second Amendment is the Reset Button of the U.S. Constitution)
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To: El Gato

Marriage goes with the presumption of sexual relations.

Seriously, the honeymoon is a "sex vacation" in essence.

You are probably right about this situation including sexually active unmarried normal people.

The interesting question is whether the soon to be passed FL marriage amendment will end this after it passes in NOV.

That will simply end the gravy train for everyone cohabiting for sex. It will just put marriage for insurance back to opposite sex couples.


120 posted on 01/24/2006 8:50:09 AM PST by longtermmemmory (VOTE!)
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